Reset connection before delegating to handler

Resetting the connection first before invoking a failure callback on
the application handler ensures that any checks to isConnected will
return false.

Issue: SPR-14721

spring-messaging/src/main/java/org/springframework/messaging/simp/stomp/DefaultStompSession.java

@@ -456,8 +456,8 @@ public class DefaultStompSession implements ConnectionHandlingStompSession {
 			logger.debug("Connection closed session id=" + this.sessionId);
 		}
 		if (!this.closing) {
-			handleFailure(new ConnectionLostException("Connection closed"));
 			resetConnection();
+			handleFailure(new ConnectionLostException("Connection closed"));
 		}
 	}
 
@@ -647,8 +647,8 @@ public class DefaultStompSession implements ConnectionHandlingStompSession {
 			if (logger.isDebugEnabled()) {
 				logger.debug(error);
 			}
-			handleFailure(new IllegalStateException(error));
 			resetConnection();
+			handleFailure(new IllegalStateException(error));
 		}
 	}