Add dependency management for kafka-server

Apache Kafka now ships a new module, kafka-server, since the 3.7.0
release. The `3.9.0` kafka-client introduced some breaking changes that
require this dependecy for the `EmbeddedKafka` support in Spring for
Apache Kafka.

This commit adds this dependecny for Spring Boot based Spring Kafka
projects.

See gh-43450

spring-boot-project/spring-boot-dependencies/build.gradle

@@ -1098,6 +1098,7 @@ bom {
 				"kafka-log4j-appender",
 				"kafka-metadata",
 				"kafka-raft",
+				"kafka-server",
 				"kafka-server-common",
 				"kafka-server-common" {
 					classifier = "test"